Allowing a player to the table

Hello! I searched, but I couldn't find an answer to my question. I'm creating a game table (e.g. bismarck), the second player is already at the table, the third player is still missing. A user enters, expresses a wish to play. And before I can press "yes", another user enters and also expresses a wish to play. And now my previous wish is automatically replaced by a new one and I have to press "yes" to the last user who entered. I think this is rude towards the person who expressed their wish first. Of course, you can say "no" to the last person who expressed their wish, but that's not polite either (I can't explain to him why I'm saying no). Is there any way to display the wishes in the order they were received?

They seem to be on top of each other - try dragging them apart.